Sunday, November 24, 2024

The Current State of the "Spare" Room

I keep referring to it as the "Spare" room. My husband corrects me that it is "My" room. In our previous two apartments, it was always referred to as my room. But I want to highlight that this time it is meant to be more multifunctional. 


Previously, the room was dedicated to all my hobbies and then additionally as my office during the pandemic. Now, while serving those purposes, it also needs to be a guest bedroom. Just this past week we bought a mattress. A Murphy bedframe is being delivered tomorrow afternoon. 

Bestar Evolution Wall Bed, White

I really like the solution of the Murphy bed and hopefully it works as well as I am imagining. 


The majority of my EGL stuff is now put away...

It was hard to fit the entire height of the closet into one photo!

Albeit, not in a super well organized manner in some cases...

Some of the drawers in this dresser. Very full and very messy...

One day, I will organize the above dresser with all my socks and cardigans and such. There is also a storage bin full of EGL clothes that I don't think I want to part with but haven't got room for in the closet. As I mentioned in my last blog post, I'm waiting until post pregnancy to make any decisions about selling things. Justification is that quite a bit of my wardrobe was difficult to acquire. If I sell things, I might not be able to find them again.

This also reminds me that I need to update the wishlist page of this blog! Eep!


This camera angle is mostly satisfying to look at.


Since the closet in this room is half the size of my previous hobby room, besides putting some things into a storage bin, layering blouses with jumperskirts on the same hanger was also a necessity. It was kind of fun to choose which to layer with which though. I wonder if it will affect coordinate planning for me though? Because there is now already a suggestion that a certain blouse and jumperskirt should go together. 

I've also got some of my art supplies in the closet with my EGL wardrobe. Prior to moving, all my painting supplies were stored in the living/dining area of our previous apartment. I'm not even sure how they migrated out there from my hobby room. Art is also something that's fallen to the wayside whilst pregnant. I know I am going to be super busy taking care of a small human, but I hope I regain passion for my hobbies. In any case, it is a bit hard to organize this room when I am not doing any of my hobbies. Not sure what arrangement will be the most functional for me.

There's also a hold on putting up any decor until the Murphy bedframe is installed. It's going to take up most of one wall. It needs to be in place before anything else goes on the walls. 

Sunday, October 6, 2024

Confounded Unpacking Woes

In mid-August, we moved into a house. The house is absolutely wonderful, though so much more work than an apartment. We're in a suburb that is reminiscent of the one I grew up in. It's quiet and safe; everything I could wish for after living downtown during a drug epidemic. 


All my EGL is going into a spare room, but this room also needs to take the role of a guest bedroom. Hence, I can't let EGL envelope the entire space. I still haven't worn EGL a single time since my last post in June. Since unpacking is a bit tough because of the space restriction it seems like a perfect time to do a purge. But I have this motto to not getting rid of anything off-season. The number of times I've gotten rid of an item of clothing meant for Autumn in Spring and then when Autumn comes round I realize I've made a mistake is a testament to this. In this case, I'm not talking about seasons of the year but seasons of life. While I've been pregnant, I haven't had the passion or desire to wear EGL. Mostly due to feeling too ill. But I foresee this feeling disappearing once I am no longer pregnant and feeling better.

So, when I think about it like this, I shouldn't sell anything at this time unless I was already considering doing so beforehand. What about the space issue? Our house has a large storage room. The solution is to put some things into storage. 

I've been filming a few clips here and there as I am unpacking. So maybe I will make a short video if I get enough content. 

Also, I did buy one new thing recently:
It's the Happy Treat Star Necklace from Angelic Pretty. A friend of mine was selling it and I thought it will go really nicely with the Dreamy Stage OP:

Well, I don't suppose I'll be wearing EGL any time soon still. A friend recommended I should have a get together with people from my comm before the baby comes but I doubt I have the energy or time. My current goal is to at the very least get everything unpacked and put away (not necessarily neatly).




Saturday, June 1, 2024

Update :o

This blog has not been forgotten! I'm shocked to see I haven't posted since 2022. There is a draft from last year but I doubt there's any point publishing it now. It included musings about disentangling my relationship with EGL fashion from my negative online experiences. 

Well, things are different now. In a good way. :)


I haven't worn EGL in several months :'( but that's because I'm expecting! And I am finding most clothing to be uncomfy D: One day I did randomly look online to see if there was any overlap between EGL and maternity wear and did find a dress from years ago (2017) :

Link to Article
Made a brand MerryGORound. It's really cute, wish I could find something like that now...


Today, I had to use PayPal for something and laughed about how it had been so long since I'd used PayPal because it had been so long since I'd bought EGL. My husband asked "is that all you associate PayPal with?" and yes, it is. The last time I ordered any EGL was from Closet Child in February. 


I should be moving again this year, but at least within the same city. It would be funny if I made a YouTube video of myself packing all my EGL clothes. 



It's ILD today, maybe that's a good occasion to post. But I've been thinking about this blog on and off for a while. I went on a few adventures since last summer. I'd like to post about them but it does seem a bit daunting (coming from the person who finds vacuuming a daunting task). 


For a few months I was too sick from first trimester side effects to do much of anything, so I spent A LOT of time watching YouTube (and is probably why February seems so long ago XD) and got really into videos about caving/cave diving accidents. I'd recommend this channel: Scary Interesting. I never plan to cave dive or go caving ever, so this kind of scary entertainment is perfect for me. 



Sunday, November 27, 2022

Ramblings on a Sunday

 It's the first time I've worn lolita in a while. 

My coordinate for church:

The author in a mirror selfie wearing a lolita dress and cardigan. The dress has a theme of woodland animals in a forest as a border print. The cardigan is knitted. They are wearing a necklace with forest animals on it. Their socks have a corset pattern with flowers. They are wearing heels with a big satin bow on the front and a rounded toe.
I can't wait to get my new bag from Cotton Candy Shop, I hope I picked a good colour scheme... Kumakumya needs a rest! Also, shocker, I am not wearing a head accessory! I'm not just digging them, I guess. Maybe I should elaborate on that some day?

Coorindate rundown:
Jumperskirt, blouse, necklace, socks, shoes: Innocent World
Bag: Baby, the Stars Shine Bright
Cardigan: Lacemade

My new cardigan is from a brand called Lacemade. It's perfect for my style. I discovered it through the YouTuber Fairyanne. She's worn this cardigan in a few videos. I left a comment asking about it and she was kind enough to tell me where it was from.

The Lacemade brand tag. There are two tags attached with a ribbon. They square shaped tag has a gold embossed mermaid wearing a corset holding a glowing nautilus shell. They second tag is shaped like a crest and has the brand name in large cursive writing in embossed gold.
The tag and packaging were all very pretty.



Nothing much exciting has happened since my last post other than the cardigan arriving in the mail. Otherwise, I recently repaired the pair of shoes (Innocent World Roseline Shoes) I am wearing in today's coordinate using Shoe Goo. The soles were coming off. Not sure how much longer they'll hold out. It's such a shame that they are in poor condition because they're very cute. Many secondhand shoes I've purchased deteriorate quite quickly, even if they were initially in good condition. Not sure if it is my climate (dry) or just the age of the shoes. 

I might considering buying a replacement from Cotton Candy Feet because they make shoes in this same dusty rose colour. 

A pair of flat black shiny shoes with three straps with buckles.
I think this design would be good for my classic lolita looks. 



Also, how awesome is it that shoes are back on Lolibrary? For a while there, they didn't have any of them listed because they'd lost the information. Lolibrary is such a valuable resource to me.


Also also, I think I want to get one of those Garden style one piece dresses from Baby, the Stars Shine Bright. The ones with the V-shaped front. I saw one for a good price a while back but didn't go for it and I've kind of regretted it since? Ivory is my favourite colourway, but sax is also nice. Thinking about getting a dress/skirt in a brown fabric with an allover print some day too...

Ivory dress with long sleeves and a poof at the shoulders. The hem of the dress has ruffles. It has a standing collar and buttons down the front. Ruffles in the shape of a V, start at the shoulders and meet at waist.


I guess I should update my wishlist!


I've got a meetup next weekend and there is a swap meet at the beginning. I need to go through and pick out things I want to sell so I can free up some space and $$$ 

Sunday, November 20, 2022

Busy busy

 As the title says, I've been busy busy.


But I want to talk about something else.

**TRIGGER WARNING: SA**


Sunday, August 7, 2022

A Plant Focused Post

 Behold! Some new plants were left in the lobby of my apartment building the other day:

A collage of two different plants. The top left plant has large single leaves with a purple underside. The topside is green with white-pink veins and border. A few leaves look dried out and dying. The bottom right plant has many leaves on single stems sticking out all over the place from the dirt. The leaves are bright green with dark green border and dark green ovals running along the centre of each leaf (looks like a picture of a vine almost)
Note reads: Adopt me!! (I'm very needy) I need more than usual humidity!!
The top left is Stromanthe and the bottom right is a Rattlesnake plant. The are both in a bit of poor shape, but I hope I can help them out. They both had sticky-notes on them. The stromanthe had "Adopt me :(" on it and the rattlesnake plant had a note explaining that it's quite a needy plant and requires high humidity (you can see it in the photo above). 


Gardening is a hobby of mine, I have many indoor plants. Then, there are all the plants on my balcony that form a vegetable garden during the warmer months. Last year was very experimental in determining which plants will do well on our north facing balcony. Squash and relatives did poorly. Beans did the best, so quite a few of those were planted this year, along with a tomato plant and some leafy greens like kale and swiss chard. A variety of herbs were planted this year too. Last year, I planted different sorts of herbs within the same pot but they didn't fare well. This year, I planted each herb separately so that they can be watered and exposed to sunlight to meet their individual needs. We do get sun on part of the balcony in the morning and all over in the late afternoon, so the plants aren't in total shade all day. The tricks to herb gardening are slowly revealing themselves to me with time.

I've got quite a few drying out right now for use throughout the year.

Fresh herbs on various trays, some of which are stacked. All are in front of a small fan that is flowing air towards them.
My herb drying setup, at the moment.

The mint plant, started from a cutting I took in the woods near my old apartment is very prolific. I've cut it back and dried those cuttings several times this year already. It makes a very nice tea. The dill plant seems to be doing well, seems less is more when watering it. This was the first time I'd picked any of the dill, so will see how the plant rebounds. Basil does well to have its leaves pruned frequently.

A small white tray partially filled with ripe cherry tomatoes.
Cherry tomatoes. I didn't grow the plant that produced these from seed myself this year. The ones I did died by the hand of a neglectful babysitter whilst I was away during one of my adventures this past spring.

Two tiny mostly red with some green crab apples held in the author's hand. They look similar to McIntosh but very tiny. Another four could easily fit into the hand.
Crab apples! 

In foraging news, a tree nearby was filled with nice looking red crab apples. Very shiny. Very bitter. Tried cooking in boiled water. Still somewhat bitter and very sour. Perhaps they need to ripen on the tree a bit more because I know that crab apple jam/jelly is a thing. Wild purslane was also discovered. May go and pick some this week.

And here is my coordinate for today:

The author wearing an ivory cotton swiss dot jumperskirt with a dark rose bolero with lace on all the edging and two ribbons. Wearing crew socks in the same colour with lace on them. Nothing in their hair. Standing in front of a mirror.
Jumperskirt: Dot Stripe JSK
Bolero: Angora Bolero
Blouse: Themis Blouse
Socks: ??
(Everything is Innocent World)
No hair accessory for no real reason, I suppose.

My smaller MeLikesTea petticoat is pink (in a shade which I totally love) so it kind of shows through some of my dresses, such as this one. The size is perfect for casual wear, but the colour presents a problem. Perhaps I should buy another petticoat in a plain colour... How many petticoats does one need, though? Bah.


Saturday, August 6, 2022

New Shoes x 2

There has been a need for a classy pair of pink heels in my lolita wardrobe for quite a while. Cotton Candy Feet has some really cute styles. The problem is that there are too many good options! It's taken a few months, but I finally decided on a pair. It came down to choosing the pair with the name I liked the best. Fairy Ballerina Glitter Shoes was the winner! How can you go wrong with fairies, ballerinas and glitter?

I chose the light pink option. Here's a picture showing some my dresses I plan to wear them with:

Collage of four stock images of lolita dresses surrounding a pair of glittery high heels with a bow on the front. There are sketches of a fairy and some plants in the background of the image.
Top Left: Toys Museum 
Top Right: Whimsical Vanilla Chan 
Bottom Left: Unbirthday 
Bottom Right: Dolls Tea Party 
All Angelic Pretty

(Yes I did some doodles on this collage. Trying to let my creativity out a bit more.)

In other news I found a super cute Angelic Pretty blouse for sale secondhand online and I bought it! 

A cotton blouse with cotton lace. It has three rows of ruffles running down the front, a ruffled hem and collar. The short sleeves also have ruffles and a bow on each. The detachable longer sleeves have ruffles and bows at the end also. The sleeves themselves look otherwise plain. There is a satin ribbon tied at the front. The buttons down the front of the blouse are the same colour as the rest of the blouse.

It's the Decoration Ruffle Blouse from 2009. It has detachable sleeves! It wont come with the detachable ribbon on the front but that's okay because I can just make it myself. It will be my first completely blue blouse. The blue blouses I have are both striped. It is always funny to me how I've been in the fashion so many years but some things that feel like they should be essential (e.g. a plain blue blouse) I just don't have. Something else I don't have is a white bag. Probably, I need two. One for classic looks and one for sweet looks.

Since it's an order from Japan, I picked out a few other items too. Gotta make it worth it. ^^; (goodbye money *watches money flying away*)

A pair of running shoes with a thick sole (trendy). They are mostly white with pastel colour accents. The overall aesthetic is very 80s.
I also got these shoes for more casual lolita looks in a local store! They had a few other pastel coloured shoes as well, but I resisted them. I wish pastel colours could stay in fashion for a long time...

A collage of various colourful lolita dresses all next to a the pair of pastel 80s aesthetic shoes. The dresses all share similar colours to the shoes.
Top row (left to right): Fantastic Carnival, Happy Bunny, Marshmallow Bunny, Toys Museum
Bottom row (left to right): Melody Toys, Toy Parade, Toy Fantasy
All Angelic Pretty

They'll go with many of my dresses! :D Personally, I think combining sneakers with lolita is super cool. It makes the outfits look way more casual.



Sunday, July 24, 2022

Weekend Adventures

On Friday afternoon my husband and I went berry picking. I recalled seeing raspberries growing along a nearby path last year. They're black raspberries, actually. There weren't too many ripe fruits, lots of unripe ones. Still, we had a small haul.

A plastic container full of black raspberries. They are smaller than regular raspberries.

The raspberry bushes are feisty! Foraging is a lot of fun, so I don't mind the minor scrapes. I put these into pancakes the next morning. Saturday is always pancakes for breakfast and then I save the leftovers for Monday to make the first day back to work a little more fun.

After berry picking we went to go see Nope, Jordan Peele's latest directed film. There is something special about a horror film directed by a person known for comedy. Hopefully, he will direct more films! I am also hoping that there will be a director's cut of Nope because there was an entire subplot that was removed.

On Saturday afternoon we went to a festival. It was 30 degrees but I really wanted to wear lolita fashion anyway and so I did. Parasol came to the rescue!

The author takes a photo in the mirror. They have a skirt with pin tucks, crossed lace and ruffles at the hem. They are wearing ankle socks with cork sole platform shoes. The crossbody bag as a large bow on it. The blouse is short sleeved and has a pilgrim collar. An open parasol with ruffles is resting on their shoulder. The coordinate is entirely pink and white.
Parasol, headbow: Baby, the Stars Shine Bright
Blouse, socks, wristcuffs: Bodyline
Bag: Angelic Pretty
Necklace: Sweet Dolly House
Shoes: An*Tai*Na
Skirt: Design replica of Angelic Pretty Cross Ribbon Skirt

My natural hair looks okay with the giant head-eating-bow. Why doesn't my longer hair? A mystery. Speaking of hair, I am thinking about growing mine out again. 

An old school style felt suited for the festival. Sometimes, when out in public "going back to basics" seems best. Quite a few people complimented my outfit. One girl said she really wanted to get shoes like mine. I wish I had told her to "DO IT" and encouraged her but I was a bit overwhelmed :< Hopefully, I inspired her in some way because another lady had said she felt it was inspiring that I was just wearing whatever I like.

The only problem with a parasol is that you have one hand less free. Not terribly ideal when you are also trying to hold a Korean rice veggie dog (which was very delicious by the way!). I also had this Chinese charcoal baked bun filled with sugar and topped with sesame seeds. Wish I'd taken photos of the food but alas. >__<"


With all the events of the weekend, I feel like I've fully recovered from being ill. I'll be back to the office tomorrow (Monday) but I don't know when I'll return to the gym. Trying not to be too concerned about losing my gains. Maybe it will be fun to see where I am at and start again, who knows? 


Saturday, July 23, 2022

Bunny Pocket OP

A goal I had a few months ago was to not buy any more lolita for quite some time. I've stuck to this goal!
Angelic Pretty announced they were re-releasing the Bunny Pocket OP, though. This was worth breaking from my embargo on lolita fashion. 

The bunny pocket OP in the sax colourway. It has bunny face shaped pockets on the skirt, corset lacing on the bodice and a scalloped double hem.

So then, I spent a lot of time thinking about which colourway to ask my shopping service to purchase. All the colourways are wonderful, I'd be happy with any. I'm always partial to blue, but the first time I saw this dress was in Shelby Cloud's video and hers was pink. So pink has a special meaning for me. The red x white or black x white combo also were super cute. After much deliberation, I put in an order with a shopping service listing the order of my colour preferences, in case my number one choice was unavailable:
#1. Sax
#2. Pink
#3. Black
#4. Red

The Dot Michelle Katyusha matched the dress really well. I requested they purchase it in the same colourway as whichever dress they managed to get.

Sadly, the dress sold out instantly. At 11:00 PM EST I refreshed the page and it was sold out. I never even saw the dress in stock! Only the listing preview page and then instantly sold out! Totally bonkers.


Hopefully, it will also be sold at Angelic Pretty USA, but it wasn't even listed on Angelic Pretty Paris' webstore and I think Paris usually lists at the same time as the Japan store. 


It's always so hard to gauge what level of interest a dress is going to have, especially now that I don't use Instagram very frequently. 

...

To think I spent all this time trying to choose a colour and also whether or not to try for the Japan store or to try and wait for the USA store. All that worry for nothing! I can't help but laugh a little.

Sunday, July 17, 2022

I am back from my many adventures!

I've been sick for the past week. I was supposed to go to Trotcon and even had a Fluttershy inspired egl coordinate planned out. :( Actually, I didn't get very sick. It was like a mild cold. But I did feel very tired. 
It was really nice to just spend an entire week at home feeling obligated to do nothing. :D

I managed to get some things done. For example, a button had popped off my Cherry Cat jumperskirt from Innocent World. The button seems to have been sucked into the void of nothingness because it has entirely disappeared. Months of searching have yielded no results. I sewed on a clear button as a replacement. The buttons are mismatched now though. Maybe now that I've gone through the effort to replace it, the missing button will return.


Back view of the Cherry Cat jumperskirt. The back has shirring. The detachable straps are held with a single button. The new button is not very noticeable because it is clear and colourless. The original button is a similar colour to the dress fabric.
The results. Not too noticeable hopefully?

Cherry Cat is one of my favourite dresses. The cats are sort of wonky looking but it reminds me of the wallpaper border of my childhood bedroom. The dress is also very simple. The ease of wear that comes with such simplicity combined with the nostalgia makes it a go-to.

A close-up of the border print of the dress shows a white long haired kitten stalking a tiny mouse that is carrying a cherry.
Mouse (soon to be a victim?) carries a cherry away.


On the topic of mending, I repaired the burn holes near the cuffs of this sweater. This sweater was left downstairs in my building's lobby, as things often are. It's sort of a leave and take situation. Quite a bit of my muggle clothing is sourced from here. It's fun to find new clothes for free that are in my size. I guess whomever owned this before must have been a smoker? Thought I don't recall it smelling like smoke.
Before image of the sweater sleeve. There are two burnt hole in the plush fabric.
Before.

After image of the sweater sleeve. The mending job looks okay, but you can tell there has been a repair made.
After

Why is there no full view photo of this sweater? Who knows?! This is really just for bookkeeping for myself maybe. Or maybe to prove to myself that no, this blog (as a whole) isn't just about lolita fashion. It's about my life. Something like that.
In that case, here's as close as a worth photo I have of myself "wearing" the sweater. It's wrapped around my waist. This image looks hella flat, but I am actually at the top of a very big rocky hill (or perhaps you could call it a small mountain). It's a very remote location, very cool to go somewhere so remote.
The author stands giving a thumbs up. There is rocky, hilly terrain in the backdrop with a lake in the distance. The author is also wearing a baseball cap with side flaps and a fanny pack. The sweater shown about is tied around their waist. The blue sky takes up half the background and has some wispy clouds.
Me in my iconic field hat. I had to make a few repairs to it this trip. It's ten years old now!

It's been quite a while since I've worn lolita. This spring/summer has been filled with traveling. Although last week was spent in quarantine and could have presented an opportunity to wear lolita, I preferred to wear clothing that I could fall asleep in at any moment. I did indeed sleep a lot.
But the food supply has run low and I feel pretty well now so I visited a grocer. It's quite hot so I went for a super cute look instead of lolita. I have discovered that wearing a wig is as good as wearing a hat to keep the sun off one's head :P 
The author is wearing a gingham dress and converse shows with large ribbons for laces. They have on a big pair of glasses and a long wig with bangs.
This dress is from Peiliee Shop

I'm happy with how this fit turned out! I think it's very cute. 

Otherwise, I've been playing the Sims 4 a bit and watching both Fargo and My Dress-Up Darling. 

Also, I have this bubbling feeling of nostalgia! I don't know why. Maybe it's just because it's summer??



 

Sunday, June 19, 2022

It's June AlreadY!

I've been away and travelling a lot so I haven't had much of a chance to wear lolita. 

I did wear lolita a whole lot over the Easter weekend, and I'd meant to post about it but never got a chance.

Part of the problem is that it's not a smooth process to transfer images from my smartphone onto my computer to write these entries. 

These Converse shoes are from Poshmark! They will go well with very casual coordinates.

A pair of pastel pink high top converse shoes with large ribbon laces and large grommets to accommodate.


This is what I wore to church today. There was no time for a proper photo. In addition I wore a satin pink baseball hat and an Angelic Pretty purse. I actually had to run to church in order to make it on time. It must have been an interesting sight to any observers. These Converse came in handy!


The author in a lolita coordinate wearing the converse shoes, an Alice in Wonderland Innocent World JSK and a bunny ear bolero from Baby, the Stars Shine Bright. They have the hood of the bolero up, the bunny ears are flopping to the site. It is a photo taken in a mirror.


A friend and I were discussing the use of the term lolita. I don't want to use this term anymore. Personally, I don't want to deal with misconceptions. Instead, I'll refer to it as jfashion (when talking to muggles). I think this works, because my style is perhaps not strictly lolita anyway. 


Hopefully, there will be other opportunities to wear lolita before the month is over. I'll be attending Trotcon next month. I plan to make a Fluttershy themed coordinate!



Sunday, April 10, 2022

Goodbye to my hair, hello to pining over dresses yet again and will I ever stop obsessing over cooking?

March flew by really fast. I was pretty busy the whole time but I can't exactly remember much of what went on. My last post was the only time I wore lolita in March. Surprising!

I didn't get a chance to make the headdress to match Doll's Tea Party yet. I am unsure of when I will have enough free time to do it.

Recently, I decided that I want to be less interested in cooking to have more free time but so far I have failed. T__T 

I also cut off all my hair finally. I feel a lot better about my appearance now. This means I had to break out the wigs I've kept stored away for so long in order to wear lolita (in a way that makes me happy with how I look. I am not saying one needs long hair to wear lolita, I am just super critical of myself). 

The author stands in front of a mirror in an all ivory coordinate with brown pumps that have a trump suit running down the front strap. They are wearing a long auburn wig with bangs. The dress is a jumperskirt with a tiered skirt. The blouse is long sleeves and is the same colour as the dress. The dress has a small bow on the front of the same fabric.
Here's my trying out a wig for the first time in a few years.

Does it obviously look like a wig? Does it matter when it comes to lolita anyway?  XD
This FINALLY gave me the push to trim the bangs on the other two of my wigs. I think I did a much better job than my attempt with my pink wig years ago. I will probably try to fix the bangs on that pink wig, if possible. Additionally, I hope to get a wig closer to my natural hair colour.


In other news, the most recent Baby, the Stars Shine Bright Release is killing me because I told myself I'd buy no more lolita this year. But... LOOK !!
It is a jumperskirt with a scallop hemline and crocheted lace. There is corset lacing down the front. It is a plaid pattern in blue and yellow. Very spring/summer vibes! It has two pockets on the front of the skirt with crocheted lace trim and ribbon tied in a bow. It also comes with two small ribbon hair clips.
Scallop hem tartan check jumper skirt set

I feel like that crying trollface meme. Or the Spongebob "I don't need it" meme. An almost-the-same dress in a different colourway is currently sitting my closet. I just love the way it looks though!!

Last week, I revisited the idea of potentially selling off some of my wardrobe, but confirmed once again that I love everything I have. 

Along the lines of cutting off my hair, I am also working on building muscle in my upper body to help with the dysmorphia. This means I need to eat a lot more protein, which is probably why I've failed to banish thoughts of cooking and recipes from my mind. And to take it one step further in the hypocrisy I might be creating some recipe blog posts. Originally I was putting recipes on a separate page but I have never been totally pleased with that format so I am going to start adding them as regular posts. 

Kind of concerned about dresses no longer being able to fit my arms but IG will cross that road when I get there.


Bye for now~

Monday, March 7, 2022

A very special haul

 I happened to see the matching KC for Holy Night Story by Angelic Pretty for sale on a Japanese secondhand site and this started a large haul (I also happened to find the matching mini hat as well!!).


I wanted to share a few of the things I bought. Most importantly, I found someone selling the first lolita dress I ever saw. I decided to try it on in a similar fashion to the way I first saw it. No blouse, petticoat or socks or anything. 

Innocent World Dot Stripe JSK

This was a surreal moment. I remember the person from those photos writing that the dress skirt was really full. They were right! There's a lot of material there. The dress is not the same colour but I am really happy to have an all ivory dress, I think it's going to make some really cute coordinates.

Innocent World Stripe Pleated Skirt
Baby, the Stars Shine Bright Sucré Transparent Knitting Cardigan

This skirt and cardigan are another two items I ordered. The skirt is kind of odd, which is the reason I bought it. I really love this cardigan. It's a light knit with half sleeves. It's going to be really nice for warmer weather.

Innocent World Tartan Check Frederick Trump JSK
Innocent World Noemi Ribbon Cardigan

Both the jumperskirt and the cardigan here are new. I really really love this dress. It has a lot of velvet details and it's very nice and heavy and it's wonderful. The photo is pretty dark but I am sure I will wear it quite a few times before cold weather leaves us so hopefully I'll get some nice photos to share here.


I've been pretty busy recently. I hope March will be less interesting.

I have a goal for myself to make a headpiece to match my Doll's Tea Party OP. I have the materials already, and a design in mind. Just need to execute it!

Thursday, February 17, 2022

Just a Post about Saturday

I made a delicious loaf with dried fruit! I used tapioca starch instead of rice flour and the texture was good! I think I would prefer rice flour though. Or maybe a mix of the two. I am really into making a dessert for the week lately. It's nice to have something extra after dinner. Baking isn't something I've done much of but this has increased my interest.

A photo of a sweet loaf in a loaf pan with sunflower seeds baked into the top.

The author in a dress with an allover print. The dress has two small bows on the skirt and two bows down the front of the bodice. They are wearing platform shoes with a wooden sole. They have their hair in a topknot with a bow and are doing the peace symbol with their hand. The dress falls above their knees.
I also wore lolita this day.  The jumperskirt is Mary's Sweet Sheep from Baby, the Stars Shine Bright. It's super short!!! These rocking horse shoes which came with a broken strap :( I don't know how to fix it. I asked my husband to solder it back together for me, he said it might ruin the buckle but... it's totally broken how could it get more ruined? I hope he'll try to fix it. 

Oh right, I filmed a video of myself doing my daily makeup routine. For archival purposes, I suppose. It's set to publish at a later date though.


Friday, February 11, 2022

Holy Night Story Jumperskirt GET

Finally! I have Angelic Pretty's Holy Night Story switching jumperskirt in green! A couple of years ago I saw the complete set listed on Lacemarket for less than 200$ and I didn't go for it and I regretted it since. So then I was always looking for the dress and having no luck. It was available in other colourways and only when I took a break from checking secondhand sales everyday over the last summer did it get listed. It was sold by the time I saw the posting.
Over the Christmas holiday I saw someone selling the dress without any of the accessories for way more than I'd originally intended to purchase it. But I thought about it and I was tired of checking for this dress all the time and pining over it so I went ahead and bought it. I'm very pleased! The seller even included a mini hat from another release that matches quite well!
Angelic Pretty Holy Night Story on a dress form with a mini hat shaped like a drum on top. The bodice is made of velvet with military style details. The skirt is made of cotton and has a lace trim and glitter on the print.

Close up of the bodice showing the velvet fabric, a bow made from velvet, lace along the square neckline and gold buttons and gold threading to create the military style look.

A close up of the print showing a rocking horse, drums and a large cake.  a candle, a trumpet

The back of the dress. The back of the bodice is simple with a centre zip. The waist ties are also velvet and tied.

Close up of the velvet waist tie in the back of the dress with a bullion fringe.

I really like the velvet fabric on this dress. The waist ribbon ends in a bullion fringe. Combined together with the fabric it reminds me of plush old fashioned curtains.

The green is more blue toned than Angelic Pretty's Classic Fairy Tales.

There is also GLITTER in the print. I took a video to capture it:

I am still thinking about how to coord this dress. I always thought that if I got the Ennui Doll blouse from Angelic Pretty I'd try pairing them together because the blouse has a vibrant pink that could match the print. 
It also has some nice navy shades that might be interesting to pull out, but I do not have any navy lolita items.
Something about this print reminds me of an iSpy book. I am not sure why. But it feels nostalgic to look at. 

Sunday, January 30, 2022

The Wardrobe Post 2022

I started working on my wardrobe post last week. I put it off for far too long and in the end I was rushed to get it finished. Note to self, just start in December! One thing I did at the beginning was actually just doing one section at a time e.g. sweet lolita style jumperskirts and then putting them away when I was done photographing them. I would recommend this method to anyone with a big wardrobe. Doing it slowly in little bits over time is great because you are not rushed and you an also put things away without rushing as well and get some good organizing done. I also kept track of any damages I noticed while photographing my wardrobe in a spreadsheet. I can go through this and fix things! 
I can't remember if I wrote this in my post about why you should make a wardrobe post but one great thing is that it forces you to reorganize everything!

This was also my first time using my dressform to make the post and that was an interesting experience. It actually helped me to appreciate my pieces better and as I was putting them on I had thoughts about most of the pieces so I decided to write a little blurb under a lot of them. This post feels like a love letter to my lolita fashion wardrobe.

Main Pieces

One Piece Dresses

Angelic Pretty Whimsical Vanilla-chan OP
A dress I never thought I'd own! It's so beautiful! When I received it, the lace was so perfectly pressed. I was amazed. This was before I knew about steamers.


Angelic Pretty Wonder Memories OP
This dress was love at first sight. I'd never even heard of this print before but as soon as I saw it I wanted it. I understand that this print wasn't especially popular. It's an unusual shade of pink. I love the trump on the collar and the colour of the detachable bow and also it has FOUR pockets. Actually, the seller originally forgot to send the detachable bow with it but they sent it once I inquired about it :)


Angelic Pretty Classic Fairy Tales OP
Getting this dress was interesting. I think it was before I knew about Japanese secondhand sales sites. It was one of my dream dresses so I kept waiting for it to pop up for sale and it never did. Eventually I resorted to looking at previous listings for it that hadn't sold and found one. I messaged the seller and she said that yes she still had it and wanted to sell it because she didn't wear lolita anymore. But then I didn't hear anything from her for two months. It turned out she had a baby! I really appreciate she even found the time to get back to me and mail this dress out. I wore this dress on a really magical vacation I took with my partner and have photos of myself wearing this at a butterfly conservatory. It makes the dress even more special.

Friday, January 28, 2022

Virutal Meetup Coordinate Jan 28 2022

 The writer is sitting in a desk chair from IKEA. The chair has no arms. The author is wearing BTSSB lace frill JSK with a sausage sleeves blouse and Cameron headbow also all from BTSSB. There is a lot of crocheted lace.

Here's me ready for a virtual meetup viewing of Kamikaze Girls. Was not feeling well enough to stand for photos or even put makeup on but peep my new desk chair. It's one that I've wanted for over a year and I finally got it AND it's more comfortable than my previous chair :D

I went for an old school look to be on theme with the movie. Put my hair up in a high ponytail, not a look I normally go for with lolita but I wanted to try it out. I've actually been wearing my hair in a top knot pretty often in my daily life. Actually, you can see the top knot in action in my previous post :P


Coordinate rundown:
Headbow: Cameron Headbow
Blouse: Back Pin Tucked Blouse
Dress: Lace Frill JSK
Socks: Torchon Lace 
Everything from Baby, the Stars Shine Bright except the socks which are from Innocent World

Wednesday, January 26, 2022

Finally Trump Alice!

Background: I ordered the Trump Alice JSK from Baby, the Stars Shine Bright in the summer without realizing that they only ship with EMS. EMS currently doesn't ship to Canada. I thought, 'alright, let's wait and see if they start shipping again.' Half a year later I came to the conclusion it's probably not going to happen so I send an email to the company asking if I can change the shipping address to USA. They say yes and thankfully I'm able to have it shipped to a family friend and they forwarded it to me. Apparently when they saw the word 'Trump' on the package they were triggered, which is pretty funny.

I should have taken a photo of how everything looked out of the box, but that didn't happen. I'm going to show some worn photos now~

The author is wearing the JSK with a blouse underneath and showing off the matching wristcuffs
I got the JSK version with a heart on the bodice! This was one of the main reasons I wanted this dress :D. There are trump themed accessories as well: wristcuffs, headbow and socks. I got red which is unusual for me but I enjoy the colour here. I really like this style of headbow as well, it's good for me and my flat hair c:

A shot showing the skirt of the dress, the matching socks and a pair of lolita shoes with double straps and bows and a small platform.
I paired the coordinate with these blue shoes because I really love the pop of blue from Alice's dress in the print.

Full coordinate shot with the addition of a black and white oldschool cardigan. The author is standing infront of closed closet doors and doing a funny pose on one leg like they are taking a big step.
It's cold both outside and inside so cardigan has to happen. I'm glad this is a dress that goes with this particular cardigan because there's not currently a whole lot to go with the cardigan at the moment.

I am currently working on my wardrobe post but I'm unsure if I'll manage to finish before the end of January. All my main pieces are photographed but tops and accessories are not. >< 
This time I used my dressform instead of doing a flatlay. It's funny to see how all my lolita clothes fit on the dressform compared to my own body. 

 I'm not including this dress in the wardrobe post, although I bought it last year I didn't receive it until 2022 so~ 

Also! spy another new dress in the corner of two of the photos! I want to make a post about it soon!!

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